As we enter the Christmas season, one of the things we often do is ask for kids to make a Christmas list of things they would like to receive. It’s helpful because it gives gift-buyers an idea of what might make their little hearts sing, and who doesn’t want that? This year, I want you to make a list of things you would like and I have a recommendation for one of the things you can put on it to make your heart and body VERY joyful!

At the top of your list to give to your sexy Santa husband should be a shower massage, you  know, a removable shower head. Make sure to specify one with many water pressure adjustments and a long enough hose to comfortably sit or lie down while using it. As part of your regular sexy self care routine, you can experiment with the various settings to figure out which feel best on each part of your body. I strongly recommend taking time to focus on the most sensitive and  pleasurable parts of your body, especially your clitoris, and enjoying an orgasm or two or three whenever you shower.

If you have difficulty orgasming in general, you may be happily surprised by this water based stimulation technique. While you experiment with what feels the best, you can also familiarize yourself with your own arousal, breathing, sensations in your body and your thoughts, as you experience increasing levels of pleasure. You may find that it only takes a few minutes to achieve an orgasm, or you may enjoy it for a much longer time. Even if you don’t get to the point of orgasming, you are still communicating with your body that you are paying attention to it and want it to be awake and happy.

Shower massage time isn’t only for you alone, although that is totally worth it, it’s also a great way to shift your attitude before sex with your husband, or to amp up shower sex together! This gift is not very expensive, it’s easy to install in your shower and so very wonderful for you. I am a huge fan of the shower massage, it’s one of the many tools/toys that will take sex to another level and it’s a gift that keeps on giving all year long.

Next week, I’ll give you another item to add to your sexy wish list! Until then, don’t forget the benefits great sex has on reducing holiday stress and do your best to fit it in lots of orgasms, alone and together, during the busy holiday season for a jollier and more joyful season.

Wishing you tons of ecstasy!

Veronica

 

 

 

 

 

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